Dedicated to: The men going through a situation such as this; To women who are putting their children through this; to kids going through this. Daddy’s matter, so men continue to fight. Women, take a step back and truly examine if keeping your child(ren) from their father is actually worth the damage. And kids, continue to love your dad. You will learn as you get older that your father has never and will never stop loving you.
Nobody said a thing when his ex-wife
moved away with his kid.
Under the guise of re-marriage,
in contempt of court
is why she really hid.
She thought she had all the power
and the system basically agreed.
Claiming the best interest for the child
But yet keep her from him; his seed.
Just because you’re a woman
it doesn’t give you exclusive rights,
but the system has nothing for fathers
like hers, who’s willing and trying to fight.
Just to hear her little voice,
or even see a simple pic,
selfish deadbeat mothers really and
truly make me sick!
Using control of the mind
to play their little games,
not truly caring about the child
do just what the white man has trained;
to neglect and reject the black man
while yet they rape us behind closed doors,
you don’t need you a black man
He’s worth nothing;you’re worth more.
Courts giving all favor to the “mothers’
who’s abusing the child in the worst way.
Stealing her mind and filling it
with pure negativity and paternal hate.
Of a father whose chest she slept on nightly
before you 2 were divorced
She has brothers, she’s never met
but to you that doesn’t matter of course.
So bitter at the past, like when you trashed his clothes
or threatened to ruin his life
but what you didn’t factor in,
was him having a loving and supportive wife.
See your past is no different from his,
it’s tarnished and full of holes.
But only his mess smells like sh….
and I guess yours glitters gold?!
You have a reputation of doing this
you tried the same thing with the last husband you had,
but he wouldn’t let you get away,
skip town, and rob him of being a dad.
You act like you’re an immaculate mom
a facade, your mask, plenty see right through.
But won’t say a thing because they know
there probably no point in saying it to you.
Nobody will tell you you’re wrong,
but let us not forget
the glue that holds;
the bond between
a child and loving parent.
You can’t keep her away forever,
In time she will come to know,
The reality of who her mother is
and why she had to grow,
up without her father
I know you’ll blame it all on dad,
for the loneliness she’s coped with
from such an early age;
That you never thought of her
more than a game of Monopoly
Trying to buy up all of her
In hopes of erasing the fond memories
of the man she once knew
ever so intimately,
that til this day she can still smell the aroma
of daddy on his shirt
while she rests,
on his chest,
and dreams of a life,
as a fairly tale princess.
Yanking her from her fantasy
replaced with nightmares and terrors.
Longing to be daddy’s little girl again,
that urge will last forever.
And when the day comes;
when light finally reveals the dark,
she’ll know without a shadow of doubt
That she’s still the girl of daddy’s heart.
And no matter her age,
or number of years she lived without him,
your bitterness will consume you
and love shall prevail and win!
Oh mother, oh mother,
how can you do this to your kid?
Before she ever has her first relationship
you’ve wrecked her thought of men,
What if I told you the consequences
of some of the things you’ve did.
Like increase her chances by 50%
of teen pregnancy and suicide.
No father around,
searching for love
looking for it in all the wrong guys.
Longing for them to make her feel
like the baby she once was,
safely cradled in his arms
finding peace in her own arm
solitude in sex and drugs;
“Hold me daddy.”
“Hold me and never let go.”
You have lessened her chances of success,
and adversely affected her more than you know.
heightened the likelihood of running away
whether only in mind
or it actually comes into fruition,
anger and aggression, becomes her life’s repetition.
A marriage headed straight for divorce,
wedlock babies created in the lustful nights,
now a baby mama of course.
More likely to be raped and molested,
are you happy with yourself?
Minimizing your child to numbers and statistics.
at 8 she already needs mental help.
At some point though, you will have to be a real mom;
accept your responsibility and your faults,
be real with yourself and move on.
cuz the victim here ain’t him
although you’d like it to be,
because you know he loves
and misses his only daughter;
co-parenting is a 2-way street.
Stop giving excuses for being lazy
and not putting forth the effort
in raising your child right,
with her mother AND father in her life,
there is no “winning” this proverbial fight.
She is not a game,
or a chess piece to be gained,
she is a person; created.
That’s why she looks like him
and carries his last name.
Stop being a baby mama
my sister you are better than that
you should be tired of all the drama
unnecessary;lack of maternal tact.
See a mother is more than just a title
it’s all about what you do,
so be careful what you are showing your daughter
because as you point the finger at daddy,
3 more are pointing back at you.
(c)LeToya “Penz4Lipz” Williams, August 2016.